Finding your connection starts with great contact with the floor. It then comes from good central movement from both partners. Once contact is made, connection happens only when both parties are in complete opposition to each other.
The video linked to this article is a great illustration of this concept in action. Watch how Melissa keeps turning (about 30 seconds in) as she is searching for Ben’s connection. She makes no assumptions about what he may be leading. She simply (not saying it’s easy) goes from point A to point B and from connection to connection. She sits in the “pocket” of Ben’s lead for what seems like an eternity, yet they are never off time or out of sync.
This is the concept we drill in this month’s “Finding Your Connection” unit. These classes are never “stacked” — you don’t need to attend one to understand the next. The more of them you attend, the more reps and drills you’ll have under your belt.
Want to know when the next Finding Your Connection class is happening? Email me: MrJ@MrJonathanIsMyDJ.com and ask to be added to my list.
More articles that illustrated examples of the importance of connections:
Musicality starts with connection but where does connection start? Is it in the hands? Could the feet have something to do with it? Does it go deeper into the body?
When we learn to walk as babies we figure out how to drive our center of gravity forward to stay balanced under our giant baby heads. Eventually we grow into our giant heads and we move through the world driving from our center of gravity in every activity from jump starting a standard transmission to playing tug of war. Every movement we make where we try to get something else to move we naturally move our hips into position. Then we see people couple dancing, we take a lesson, and we revert back in time to when we struggled to move our own bodies.
This week I plan to share with you the drill I use to help me connect with my partner on a deeper level. I know we are in a unit on how to be more musical and it seems like I am talking about some pretty basic stuff here but in order to lead or follow each other and “play” with the music, your connection must be on point. In order for your connection to be on point you must be moving the right way.
Check out how well these two dancers communicate with each other through connection. Look at how many times they achieve stillness. Check out how little energy they are wasting. Listen to the announcer at the end and then go back and watch the video one more time…Yeah its even more amazing the second time when you notice what you missed the first time around!
See you Thursday
304 S. Broadway
Salem NH 03079
$20 per person
6:30-7:30 Lesson
7:30-8:30 Guided Practice
Thank you to all my West Coast Swing friends who showed up to not only support me as the DJ but the country dance scene in general. We are running out of venues who play this style of music and it felt so good to get out there and party with all of you. I was also able to dust off some Musical gems that I have not played or heard in a long time as well as the new music I found in the last couple of weeks.
This week December 24th Class is West Coast Swing Musicality
We are going to do a quick recap of some of the musical patterns we just learned and start to play with HOW to use them in our dance. I plan to keep it light, playful, and of course musical!
Here are the details for our next Thursday class:
The Thursdays Class, December 21st
6:30 lesson (West Coast Swing)
7:30ish There will be a guided dance practice time that follows and I am available for dances and questions with plans to wrap the night up by 8:30.
Cost $20
Its held at 304 S. Broadway in Salem, NH
Its Two Guys Smoke Shop across from T-Bones on Route 28 (Front Right hand Door)
You are welcome to park anywhere in the lot including the spots out front labeled for 20 minutes. We are using the door closest to the giant sign which will be marked with a sign.
Up Coming Events:
January 7th
Sweeny Post
for our California Mix at
Sweeny Post #2
251 Maple St, Manchester, NH 03103
Lesson 6-7 Cha-Cha Patterns W/Ray Huard
Dancing 7-9 (Julie Lutter DJ)
Cost: $20
January 14th
Sweeny Post
for our California Mix at
Sweeny Post #2
251 Maple St, Manchester, NH 03103
Lesson 6-7 Foxtrot Patterns W/Ray Huard
Dancing 7-9 (Julie Lutter DJ)
Cost: $20
About Ray Huard
PaperMoon Ballroom Instructor & Choreographer
Raymond Huard began ballroom dancing in 1997. He has studied at studios throughout New England, most notably with coaches Ian Folker, Ed Simon, Michael Ulbrich, and Suzanne Hamby. He specializes in American Smooth, American Rhythm and International Standard and has won the trust and affection of many students, who regularly place at or near the top of their events at Pro/Am competitions. Ray began competing in the Professional Rising Star American Smooth category in September 2009 with his partner Maria Huard under the coaching of Larinda McRaven, and danced in the finals at competitions throughout the Northeast.
January 19th
Roma Restaurant
29 Middlesex St.,Haverhill, MA
(Some GPS units may have this listed as Bradford, Ma)
7:30pm Lesson West Coast Swing
8:30-10:30pm West Coast Swing Dancing
Cost is $20
This is a restaurant with a full menu downstairs. My Friend Brett just bought it and has been making some serious improvements on the menu. If you like Italian style food you can certainly go a little early and have a meal making for a great date night. This may be a beginner crowd and has potential to draw a younger audience so I am coming in with the plan being no plan. I will be ready to teach to what ever level of dancer shows up and if it goes well we may have a new new spot to dance. The dance floor is hardwood and is spectacular!
January 28th
Sweeny Post
for our California Mix at
Sweeny Post #2
251 Maple St, Manchester, NH 03103
Lesson 6-7 Night Club 2 W/Mr. Jonathan
Dancing 7-9 (Mr. Jonathan DJ)
Cost: $20
When we first set forth on this dance journey we hear terms like “Leaders or Followers” and the roles get over simplified which give people the wrong idea. After this week’s Night Club class I had a great talk with a leader that took the class. The main question was “How do I connect with my partner when their arms are so loose they won’t even hold a frame?”
My answer was simple…”You can’t and you won’t!” Some people will never get it…some (like myself) its takes a lot longer to get it…Still others understand connection 100% in their brains, but can’t stop their feet from dancing ahead of the leader. All of this is out of the leader’s control so my advice is to smile your way through that dance or class and find a partner that has the connection you want.
Followers have so little to do with following that I honestly can’t believe we settled on it as an accepted term at all. Metronome, Time keeper, frame filler, or connection facilitator may be too wordy but they are far better descriptors of what the follower actually does. If the leader is an exercise ball the follower is the air that fills his frame.
Last weekend I danced 3 nights in a row and had the greatest level of diversity of follower that I can remember having in a long time. Beginner dancers not withstanding, my dances with intermediate level and above all included some very magical musical moments that were facilitated by the follower more than 50% of the time. I was speed up, slowed down, and had my patterns extended so that I could “shine” as the leader. Listen, I am good at music theory and getting my patterns to match up to the songs but when I let my followers fill my frame we took turns leading and following and I wouldn’t have it another way!
New Hampshire Amateur Ballroom Dancers Association Presents
WCS and Country Two-Step Dance Seminar
7:00 pm – 10:30 pm
Featuring Guest Instructor: Mr. Jonathan
Location: Derry Veterans Hall Gymnasium
31 West Broadway, Derry, NH
7 :00 – 8 : 00 PM West Coast Swing Lesson
8:00 – 9:00 PM Country Two – Step Lesson
9:00 – 10:30PM Practice Dance (mix of country & ballroom)
Cost: $20 per person (includes both dance lessons and the practice party after)
**The lessons will be suitable for all dance levels, beginner through advanced **
Checks can be made out to me directly (Jonathan Barbeau) if you are pre-registering by 4-29-19 otherwise they should be made out to NHABDA. This event will sell out so please don’t wait until the last minute. You really should pre-register for this event so you don’t risk being turned away at the door.
