The dance is perceived as too hard
Dancing in and of it self is not a hard thing to do. The next time you are around a three year old, put on something with a good beat and watch them move and groove. Their pristine little hard drives have not yet been corrupted by self doubt, self pity, or self consciousness. The only thing that little kid knows how do is move and groove to the beat that is playing. Even though we are secretly jealous that they can dance judgment free and we can’t, we still smile and tell them they are doing great…right?
Competition can be such a good thing. It can drive us to new heights, help us to push the envelope, and winning helps to build confidence. I am not talking about formal Swing competition i am talking about the drive inside us that pushes a leader to be better than the leaders to his left and right or causes a follower to go for that extra spin when spinning isn’t in her wheel house.
I would argue that the biggest hurdle I ever faced as a dancer was being able to look at my dancing and be proud of my self. Sure there is a “metric shit ton” (its a technical WCS term) of better dancers in the world than little old me. Each and everyone of them had to go through the same process though. No one can love your dancing if you don’t love it first. You can’t love your own dancing if you have not done at least something everyday to make it better. You can not be the best you can be without first putting in the time and practicing.
That’s right I just went full circle and brought it all back to practice. Although practice can’t really produce a perfect product because we are all human, it can produce the seed for justification of something that we all need in order to cross over that looming great divide into “elite” status….Pride in our own accomplishment!
What makes this dance so difficult is that it requires more time than other dances to “feel” proficient. The “feel” part is different for everyone because everyone feels the need to practice for different amounts of time. If you can put in 5 solid, uninterrupted minutes of solo practice, per day, you will find this dance to be much more manageable!
Here is what is happening this weekend:
Friday Night (beginner night…lots of basics and drills to take you to the next level)
$10
7:30 – 8:15pm Lesson
8:15 – ? Social Dance Practice
DNE School of Dance
78 Princeton St
N. Chelmsford, MA
Saturday November 8th
2 West Coast Swing Workshops
with
Kirsten Obermiller
7:00 – 8:00 All level – Clear, comfortable, and connected: the secret to closed dance position for all levels
8:00 – 9:00 Slick syncopation and timing tricks: musicality prep for intermediate and above – Intermediate West Coast Swing
Intermediate Workshops $30/2, $15/1 includes dance
8:00 – 9:00 Beginner West Coast Swing Lesson with Mr Jonathan
9:00 – 12:30 West Coast Swing Dance with DJ Mr Jonathan
Beginner Lesson $10 includes dance
Dance only $10
Kirsten is one of my favorite followers to dance with…she is so worth taking lessons from that I am hiring her next month to teach for me at DNE!
Sunday Night
$10
6-6:45 2-Step lesson w/Mr. J
6:45-7:30pm WCS w/Mr. J
7:30-? California Mixer w/?
Longfellow’s Club JoEllen
524 Minuteman Dr off of Boston Post RD
(Rt 20) Wayland, MA
Leadership is the manipulation of energy.
Following is the embodiment of energy.
Connection is the tie that binds the two together.
Mr. Jonathan
www.MrJonathanIsMyDJ.com
603 475 1391
Dance on!

