Living Legends Asked For My Bio

The Board of Living Legends of Dance has asked me for my Bio which means its official I will be inducted in to the Living Legends of Dance! This is not something I take lightly so I am asking for your help. First, please read me bio and tell me if its too much, not enough, or in need of some polishing. Second: this is a closed event meaning you MUST be invited. I am allowed 10 invites to the event this year so if you have any interest in going I need to hear from you ASAP. Six people have responded to me that they want to go and have been added to the list leaving me 4 more. If you want to go and dance with some of the best dancers on the planet, with no egos, and to the best music that I have ever heard, I need to hear from you. John Festa has a couple of spots as well so if I get a few extra people in my group, he has graciously offered me his extra spots if I need them (after all you only get inducted once right?). I would love to have my dance friends and students in attendance if at all possible. The event is October 30th and 31st with a sick after party on November 1st…It also looks like I will be able to DJ on Saturday afternoon (waiting to hear for sure).

Here goes Nothing!

I started dancing on roller skates at the ripe old age of 3, passing my first freestyle roller skating test at a small rink in Haverhill, Massachusetts. 

In the 3rd grade my father refused to let me play football so I signed myself up for a ballet class in hopes of either shaming dad into letting me play or at the very least getting my self prepared for the grid iron if I could ever wear him down. Instead of being ashamed my father was so proud that I chose of all things, Ballet, that he took extra side work to pay for every costume, private, and choreography lesson for the next 6 years until my instructor moved away and closed the school at the end of my 8th grade year. My passion for dance and my work ethic earned me a scholarship to the school for my last 2 years and although I was the first and only boy, in the school’s 20 year history, to take class in the 3rd grade, when I graduated there were 3 full classes of just boys at the school.

That Summer, I discovered breakdancing. Instead of spinning on skates, on point, or holding a partner, I was now spinning on my head! Break dancing lead to Gymnastics and a 15 year coaching career comprised of many state, regional, and national titles for the boys team that I coached. Several of my former students have moved on to become dancers, dance competitors, and even professional dance and gymnastic coaches.

In 1997 I was asked to escort a lady friend in and out of a rough country dive bar in Methuen, Massachusetts called the White Buffalo so she could get her line dance fix for the week. It was there I discovered partner dancing. After a few months I was hooked on Two-Step until I saw a young lady I was dating dancing West Coast Swing with her competition partner. I couldn’t take my eyes off of them and when they finished I ran up and begged them to teach me how to do whatever THAT was! Her answer was “It’s going to be way too hard for you to learn, you stick to two-step and leave the swing to us!” I remember thinking to myself at that moment that that feeling was something that I needed to remember. Never in my life would I ever deny someone, who was willing to learn, a lesson based on what I thought their ability was. Never the less the gauntlet was thrown down and the stage was set for the most feverish learning spree that swing has ever seen!

At any given time over the next 5 years I had no less than 3 coaches per week assisting me with my progress in West Coast Swing. I took every group class that was available during the week and I attended every social dance within a 100 miles of my home in Southern, NH. At one of those social dances I was discovered by 2 studio owners and offered 2 jobs. One as a West Coast Swing instructor for a brand new dance studio (Papermoon) and the other as a DJ for a California Mixer at the club I was dancing at every week (Longfellow’s Club JoEllen).  

Never forgetting how I felt when someone told me that the dance, I fell in love with at first sight, was too hard for me, I have never turned away a student from any class. If a beginner student happens to show up on intermediate night, I make sure they feel welcome and give them a few moments of my time to help them along.  Dance is about connection with the music, our selves, and most importantly each other and no one should ever be turned away!

2007 was a game changer for my dancing. First of all I met John Festa who would become instrumental in my development as a dancer. That same year I entered and won my first swing competitions which later became the first YouTube video, that I was featured in, to hit 10.000 views. YouTube soon became the platform for many more videos and with the additions of my “Video Lesson Reviews” recorded at the end of each class I started becoming recognized as a leader through out the state, the US, and eventually in other countries and have been sought after to teach and DJ for events both in and out of the US. I stopped competing in 2010 because the music in competition no longer made me want to dance.

In 2009, a guest of John Festa’s, I attended The Hudson Swing Affair and met for the first time Ramiro Gonzales and Andrew D’Angelo. Ramiro became a huge influence on my understanding of leading, following, and dancing for the joy of dancing. Andrew was instrumental in tuning my ear to listen for music that speaks to the soul. That event set off the musical chain of events that lead me to Living Legends of Dance. 

In 2010 I was invited back to the Hudson Swing Affair as both the Sound Engineer and DJ…

In 2010 I partnered for the first time with a charity organization called “Youth Storm”. Youth Storm is a faith based group of volunteers who help young adults, which are lacking positive male role models, with finding leadership skills. Several times through out the year we throw swing parties to raise money to keep the charity going. Everyone is made to feel welcome and the music played makes you want to dance. Over the short time we have been partnering we have raised over $10,000 and helped countless kids develop leadership skills through positive roll models of which I am one.  

Today I am still a resident DJ at Club JoEllen as well as their Two-Step, West Coast Swing, and Night Club Two-Step instructor. I travel and dance at events that are noncompetitive and feature swing music. I coach dancers from competitors down to social dancers and everyone in between because ability should never dictate passion!


 

Saturday Night September 12th

Teacher Mr. Jonathan

WCS Intermediate Class 8-9pm W/Mr. J

9-12:30ish WCS Mixer w/DJ Mr. J

Longfellow’s Club JoEllen

524 Minuteman Dr off of Boston Post RD

(Rt 20) Wayland, MA

Sunday Night 

$10

6-6:45 Two-Step lesson w/Mr. J (Lesson Plan Here)

 6:45-7:30pm WCS w/Mr. J (Lesson Plan Here)

7:30-? California Mixer w/Steel

Longfellow’s Club JoEllen

524 Minuteman Dr off of Boston Post RD

(Rt 20) Wayland, MA

Leadership is the manipulation of energy. 

Following is the embodiment of energy.

Connection is the tie that binds the two together.

Mr. Jonathan

www.MrJonathanIsMyDJ.com

603 475 1391  

Dance on! 

The Legend Continues

I used to go out dancing 2-3 times a week. Each time I went out in any given week maybe 5 songs repeated from venue to venue and again at the events but at most it was only 5 songs that were so popular they had to be played. The rest of the music was always new and refreshing. DJs back then worked so hard to out do each other musically that their CD books were kept under lock and key when they were not using them to DJ. Also, one of the skills that was talked about and often taught was how music theory could make you look like a rock star even when you were dancing to a song for the first time. New music was the culture and out of this culture a “Swing Boom” was born!

Now a days, the music is 95% the same from venue to venue and event to event. You will hear 20 out of the top 40 songs on the radio at every dance and event every weekend at any given time. The reason that I hear the most, from promoters of weekly dances, is “We are trying to attract a younger audience.” What gets me is the younger audience gets a “College Discount” (half price), they stop coming to class after the 10th lesson or so, and tend to dance to every song regardless what genre it is or what the time signature is (thats right, they try to swing to waltz). Why would a promoter of an event put so much energy into a group of people that simply doesn’t pay their way?

Given all the talk about how much versatility this dance has musically, why has the music (there are very few exceptions hear in the north east) become so stagnant since the “Younger Audience” a) doesn’t care what is played and b) doesn’t know the difference yet? Have DJs stopped looking for new songs that have more going on than raunchy lyrics, 4 on the floor, or are a cappella versions of Top 40 tracks (For this discussion topic my definition of stagnation in this case is that 75% of the dancers know 75% of the words to 75% of the music being played)? 

It all breaks down to money. As a DJ it costs money to find new music and test it with a live audience. As a promoter it costs money to have a professional DJ who can afford to test his music with a live audience. Top 40 music is already popular (with a younger audience), its a sure thing (when you play it to a younger audience that doesn’t know any better), and in the end you can hire the DJ who will work for the least amount of money (often free)…The only people losing, in this equation, are those of us who have been attending classes, dances, and events for years. We paid all of this money to develop skills that may never be needed if WCS continues on its current course…Thoughts?

 

Saturday Night September 12th

Teacher TBA (Hoping for John Festa)

WCS Intermediate Class 8-9pm W/TBA

9-12:30ish WCS Mixer w/DJ TBA

Longfellow’s Club JoEllen

524 Minuteman Dr off of Boston Post RD

(Rt 20) Wayland, MA

Sunday Night 

$10

6-6:45 Two-Step lesson w/Mr. J 

 6:45-7:30pm WCS w/Mr. J 

7:30-? California Mixer w/Steel

Longfellow’s Club JoEllen

524 Minuteman Dr off of Boston Post RD

(Rt 20) Wayland, MA

Leadership is the manipulation of energy. 

Following is the embodiment of energy.

Connection is the tie that binds the two together.

Mr. Jonathan

www.MrJonathanIsMyDJ.com

603 475 1391  

Dance on! 

I Have Been Nominated

I Have Been Nominated

The past few weeks have been more than a little hectic some good and some bad. The bad is that I lost a very very good friend both in and out of the dance community. To watch her and I dance check out the video on the top right of my website. There just hasn’t been the drive to write about how dancing makes me feel when I have been feeling sad.

The good news is that I found out that I have been nominated as a “Living Legend of Dance” to be added to a list that includes John Festa, Ramiro, Andrew D’Angelo, Debby Szekely, Hazel Mead, and so many other dancers…I am truly humbled and honored and hope that my inclusion to the list don’t cheapen their being on it. I am booking my room and flights this week. There are 11 spots if I want to bring anyone down with me. My wife is one of the spots so with ten remaining. The list needs to be turned in in the next couple of weeks so they can mail you a formal invitation. In fact with out the formal invitation you can’t get in. Reply to this email if you want to come down to Virginia Beach the Weekend of Halloween with your name, address, and phone number so I can get you on my list.

This Week Tessa Antolini is the instructor for Longfellow’s Saturday night dance. She has some great style points for the followers and a couple of patterns that are great tools for the leaders to lead themselves out of a bind. The class is $20 with the dance…trust me she is worth it!

Saturday Night

$20 Dance and Lesson $10 Just the dance

WCS Intermediate Class 8-9pm W/Tessa

9-12:30ish WCS Mixer w/DJ Mr. J 

Longfellow’s Club JoEllen

524 Minuteman Dr off of Boston Post RD

(Rt 20) Wayland, MA

Sunday Night 

$10

6-6:45 Two-Step lesson w/Mr. J 

 6:45-7:30pm WCS w/Mr. J 

7:30-? California Mixer w/Mr. J

Longfellow’s Club JoEllen

524 Minuteman Dr off of Boston Post RD

(Rt 20) Wayland, MA

I’m Back!

Lauren Hill wrote in one of her lyrics that “Music is supposed to inspire.” Songs are much more than gateways to the next cool pattern, they are the gateway to our souls if we let them. How many times have you heard the first couple of beats of a tune and said “I HAVE TO DANCE TO THIS!”? When its good its good right? This weekend coming up I have compiled way more music than I can possibly play in one sitting. Each song has been hand selected for one thing and one thing only…DRIVE! 

When a song has drive, you have to dance to it. It compels you to move your body. If you are tired of the same old playlist being played at the same old tired events then you are ready to be taken on this journey. If you have never thought about it before and are genuinely happy with what ever song is playing then you NEED to take this journey with us this weekend. This music is special and if you are not on the partner dance floor you may just find your self dancing anyway right in the isle!

This is a Mr. Jonathan weekend at Longfellow’s Club JoEllen:

Saturday Night

$10

WCS Intermediate Class 8-9pm Here is a Sneak Preview

9-12:30ish WCS Mixer w/DJ Mr. J 

Longfellow’s Club JoEllen

524 Minuteman Dr off of Boston Post RD

(Rt 20) Wayland, MA

Sunday Night 

$10

6-6:45 Two-Step lesson w/Mr. J Sneak Preview

 6:45-7:30pm WCS w/Mr. J Sneak Preview

7:30-? California Mixer w/Mr. J

Longfellow’s Club JoEllen

524 Minuteman Dr off of Boston Post RD

(Rt 20) Wayland, MA


 

This Just in…Tessa Antolini has just confirmed that she will be our instructor for Longfellow’s Saturday, June 13th dance. Tessa got her start in American Ballroom and continues to compete and do very well in that world. In addition to that she also competes, teaches, and choreographs West Coast Swing and is fast becoming the follower to beat at all of the national competitions. She is an absolute bundle of pure joy on and off the dance floor with a keen eye for good WCS basics and over all dance technique. 

Tessa will be available for Private lessons before and after her group class June 13th so whether you are a couple looking to improve your connection or a leader/follower trying to break out of your current division she is available to help for $80 per 45 minute lesson. She has 2 spots open right now for privates so please don’t wait till the last minute because she will be booked. Let me know if you are interested ASAP! 

Leadership is the manipulation of energy. 

Following is the embodiment of energy.

Connection is the tie that binds the two together.

Mr. Jonathan

www.MrJonathanIsMyDJ.com

603 475 1391  

Dance on! 

This Week

Sunday Night

$10

6-6:45pm 2-step w/Mr. J

6:45-7:30pm WCS  w/Mr. J

7:30-? California Mixer w/Donna Shea

Longfellow’s Club JoEllen

524 Minuteman Dr off of Boston Post RD

(Rt 20) Wayland, MA

 

Leadership is the manipulation of energy. 

Following is the embodiment of energy.

Connection is the tie that binds the two together.

Mr. Jonathan

www.MrJonathanIsMyDJ.com

603 475 1391  

Dance on!