It was one of those Labor Day Weekends that melted anything and everything that was in direct sunlight. My lovely wife and I had risen early and driven the short 5 hours to Jersey City in her jeep. As tired as we were, the music of the Hudson Swing Affair begged one more dance for 4 straight hours until she just could take it any more and retired to the hotel room. I needed more…Swing…Connection…Real Lead and Follow…More of everything that was being offered at this event. My swing senses were on fire that night and just as I was about to pack it in, for fear that I had danced a hole in each sole of my feet I happened to bump into Ramiro Gonzales.
He had been leading and following all night at a high enough level that I took notice more than once as the evening unfolded. Lots of men have goofed around and pretended the could follow but you can tell they are not too comfortable in the follower’s roll. Ramiro’s dancing was different. When he lead he was masculine, firm, and direct. When he followed he was graceful, yielding, and connected. No trace of either roll leaked into the other. He could dance both rolls with exactly the same level of precision and proficiency. Like any good leader I had to see if he felt as good as he looked like he felt (awkward turn of phrase I know but don’t get distracted). I asked him to dance and my life will never be the same.
The first minute was like any other first time dance. Two dancers feeling each other out (stay focused) and slowly pushing the envelope…The second minute was a back and forth to see who was going to be the star of this dance he would spin twice on a free spin and then I would do 3…I hit a line in the break and he made sure that his was sharper…
At this point I need to explain that Ramiro is no small man…He is 6′ 2″, 225lbs, and is impeccably dressed at all times…At his size you would expect that he would be slow, sluggish, and off time but he is light on his feet, quick to spin, and has near perfect timing….The story continues…
After a solid minute of very subtle one-ups-man-ship and 3 minutes of dancing I could feel his star shining brighter than mine. I found out much later that he is a veteran of early 90’s swing (know as the “White Hot Era”), holds a couple of Jack and Jill titles, and has been teaching the dance longer that I have been alive, but not knowing this going in to the dance I was not about to be bested by some dude with a couple cool tricks up his sleeve. There was only one choice…This large man had to be dipped. Thats right I dipped Ramiro Gonzales!
Neither of us realized than anyone had been watching us but more than half the floor had stopped and every on looker was standing and cheering as I lifted him out of the deepest dips I have ever been the leader of (once he went back…he kept going). After that dance we became fast friends and I hired him several times for privates as both a leader and a follower.
Ramiro has agreed to come up from Texas to teach an intensive at DNE Friday, November 16th. He will be teaching a mix of basics and more advanced techniques all centered around swing connection. He does not do this EVER so you will want to take advantage of his visit. The event will be limited to 25 leaders and 25 followers (you do not need to sign up with a partner as we will be rotating throughout the lesson.) Payment is due when you sign up.
November 16th, 2013
$30 pp
Workshop is 7-9pm
Dancing is 9-10:30pm
Ramiro will be bringing some of his music as well so we are in for a double treat!
Two Step Lesson
Sunday nights
$10
Longfellow Club
524 Boston Post Rd
Wayland, Ma

